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Solution-Focused Therapy for Adults, Couples, & Families in Agoura Hills, California


Perfectionism and Trauma: Why the Need to Be Perfect Can Be a Response to Trauma
Perfectionism is often praised, but for many people it feels more like pressure than motivation. This article explores how perfectionism can develop as a trauma response and offers practical ways to begin loosening perfectionistic patterns.
Anahita Kia, JD, LMFT
Mar 77 min read


Anger Management and Healthy Emotion Regulation
Anger is a natural emotion, but when it feels overwhelming, it can affect relationships and well-being. Learn therapist-recommended strategies to understand triggers, regulate emotions, and manage anger in healthy, effective ways.
Anahita Kia, JD, LMFT
Feb 165 min read


Vagus Baby Vagus ~ 7 Invigorating Practices to Help Stimulate the Vagus Nerve
Let’s talk about the Vagus Nerve and how your body can benefit from a few simple practices to snap you out of the chaos of your day and into the calm of your own being.
Anahita Kia, JD, LMFT
Jan 26 min read


When Enabling Becomes Disabling | Understanding Healthy vs. Unhealthy Support
If you think you are (or know you are) enabling someone close to you, try replacing the word enabling with disabling, and be curious about whether or not you might be causing greater harm than good to that someone in your life.
Anahita Kia, JD, LMFT
Dec 15, 20254 min read
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